When Susan Lehman, 43, woke up to a sink full of dirty dishes, her knee-jerk reaction was anger. She pans her camera to the mess her partner left overnight. I just love that he acknowledges that he left a mess in the sink." "The most important thing is how the person in the relationship feels about the situation," Bobby says. "She experienced it as being a very positive thing that was indicative of all the positive growth and change they've made together as a couple."

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